True? or Not True?

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True? or Not True?
I have seen it over and over again. I have experienced it over and over again. Women say they want to know everything, but in reality, they don't. What they want and need is to know that they can trust you. That you are honest with them (and being honest doesn't mean you're an open book). They want to feel secure and protected (and protected goes way beyond just physical). I've even had women tell me, "We say we want to know every thing, but not really, not if it is going to hurt us or threaten my security with my spouse."

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